rant within a rant July 29, 2006
A few days ago I was all set to sit down and write a rant about how parents don’t freakin’ control their kids when my internet connection died for the fifth time this week. If things don’t improve soon, I’m gonna call Time Warner and give someone an ear full. The last time I had trouble with my internet connection, Time Warner swore up and down that there was no outage in my area (when there obviously was, because my internet connection returned within a matter of hours with absolutely no help from them). But back to the original rant…
I realize and fully acknowledge that, not being a parent myself, I probably have no right to criticize other people’s parenting. That being said…I cannot stand when parents repeatedly threaten their screaming kids with punishment, but never follow through. I hate when parents try to reason and reach a compromise with their tantrum-throwing three-year-old. Don’t they realize they are creating the behavior? If you never follow through with punishment, the child will walk all over you. Why do so many parents seem to be scared that punishing their children will make them hate them? Why do so many parents want to be their kids friends instead of their authorities? It’s bad! Stand up! Be the boss! You’re an adult and they’re a kid. DO NOT let those roles be switched. Why is this so hard for people to understand?
And apparently no one is taught manners anymore. As I was walking out of the Apple store last week with my sister, three teenage boys approached the store to enter. Now I was raised in the South and am used to certain procedures for such situations, so I was absolutely appalled when the boys attempted to push their way in the door at the same moment we were exiting. First of all, everyone knows that when entering through a double door you are supposed to use the door on the right…pedestrian rules=traffic rules. Rachel and I were following that rule…boys were not. Second, if a man approaches a door at the same time as a woman, he is supposed to hold the door for her out of respect. I was so taken aback by these boys that we almost had a manners lecture right there in the doorway of the Apple store, but it took me a minute to recover, so the boys were spared. But be warned…the next person who does something so obviously rude and thoughtless in my presence might just get a lecture.
Ah. I’ve been wanting to get that off my chest for a few days. Good job, internet connection.